Saturday, December 29, 2012

Nathan Learns to Use the Potty

When we potty trained Ben he was 26mo old but I had put it off for a little bit because I was PG with Nathan and SO sick! So even though Nathan was only 22mo old, when I started to see signs that he was ready to potty train I decided that we would do it over Christmas break since Bryan would be home for a couple weeks to lend me a hand. When we potty trained Ben, I did it by myself and I can't even explain how thankful I am that Bryan was home this time to help me- it made a world of difference. (Thanks babe for all your help and cheering!)

We started potty training the day after Christmas and here we are at the end of day 4 and I (think) I can say Nathan is now officially potty trained (both day and night). He has been accident free for 2 whole days and he has woken up dry from his last 4 naps (3hrs long each) and the past 4 nights (13hrs each night). I must admit that our method to potty training is not for the light in heart. It is hardcore, serious, focused and requires complete dedication for 48hrs.

Day 1: 
*No TV, no going outside, no electronic toys, no talking to friends on the phone, no leaving the house etc. *Basically, we just put Nathan in underwear and set the timer. Then we told Nathan whenever he heard the time, it was time to go potty. So every 15 minutes we stopped what we were doing and headed to the potty. *For the first day we would use a water bottle and drip some warm water on his wiener to encourage him to go potty.
*When he went, we cheered and shouted and danced and gave him an M&M for pee and a Hershey kiss for poopoo.
*On day 1, he had 3 accidents and they were all poopoo. But he was completely dry during his nap and that night. (we didn't wake him up during naptime)

Puppies and hedgehogs have to go potty too sometimes, haha


Day 2:
*Again, no TV, no going outside, no electronic toys, no talking to friends on the phone, no leaving the house etc.
*Again, we put Nathan in underwear and set the timer. Then we told Nathan whenever he heard the time, it was time to go potty.
*On day 2, every 20 minutes we stopped what we were doing and headed to the potty.
*When he went, we cheered and shouted and danced and gave him an M&M for pee and a Hershey kiss for poopoo.
*On day 2, he had 1 accident which was pee pee. But he was completely dry during his nap and that night. (we didn't wake him up during naptime)

cute little underwear buns!

Day 3:
*On day 3, he is allowed to play outside for just a couple minutes at a time. He is allowed to watch 2 shows. We still do not leave the house for errands or anything though.
*On day 3, we set the timer for 45 minutes but we ask often. This is the changing day from parent led to child led initiation.
*When he went, we cheered and shouted and danced and gave him an M&M for pee and a Hershey kiss for poopoo.
*On day 3, Nathan had no accidents all day, initiated all on his own and was dry for nap time and all that night.

Day 4: (today)
*Today we ran errands for about 2 hours but we made sure to go potty at every store we went to. We lived life like a normal day.
*There was no timer, it was all child initiated and Nathan did an excellent job!
*On day 4, Nathan had no accidents all day and no accidents during his nap.

NOTES:
*We used a method based on the book "Toilet Training in less than a Day" by Nathan Arzan
*Although you see on in the picture, we do not use a little potty or a potty ring, (we bought that one before having babies, but then changed our mind about using it). We want our boys to learn on a regular toilet seat so that when we go to other's houses or public restrooms they will be familiar with the potty (not afraid to fall in, etc)
*We made a big deal out of Ben helping and each time he helped or cheered for Nathan he got a treat too. This made it more of a family event and taught Ben to encourage others and helped encouraged Nathan to keep it up.
*For the first couple of days, we used the Gerber Potty Training Pants (extra padding in the pee pee area incase of an accident, so they feel wet but it doesn't run down their legs and all over the floor).

I know that some people might think our method is extreme but it works for our family (both of our boys potty trained completely in less than a week, and Ben has never peed the bed). I gotta say, it is awesome to be done with diapers, wipes, and carrying around a diaper bag. Potty training is not my favorite thing to so to get it all accomplished in 4 days made all that hard work worth it!!! It is also great to see Nathan so proud of himself and cheering for himself. My sweet little boy is growing up and I am so proud of him!!! Great work buddy, I LOVE you!!!

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Christmas Evening

There is lots of excitement on Christmas day and that is why naps are essential. But after we are all rested from naps, our energy is replenished and we are ready to go again. So we packed up and headed to my Grandpa Al's house for a large Christmas family dinner. It was really nice to gather together, enjoy a delicious meal and just fellowship. We missed those that couldn't attend but we are thankful for those that we were able to come. It was a great night!

My attempt at decorating the tables
TABLE #1

TABLE #2


Christmas Morning

Our family tradition is that we always spend Christmas morning together at home, with just our little family. It is a great time to read through the Christmas story, take turns opening presents and sipping on hot chocolate in front of the fire. We really treasure this time together.
hot chocolate sprinkles mustache

ready to work





Then after our family time, we head over to my parent's house (where my sister and brother-in-law are staying) and we have breakfast and open gifts together. I love family traditions, and I hope my kids grow up to love them too!
Poor Nathan wasn't feeling well so he enjoyed snuggle time with Grandma Donna

Christmas Eve

Christmas Eve was a great night filled with wonderful family, good food and a nice Christmas Eve service. We are so blessed to have such amazing family!!!

THE TABLE








Aunt Katie was a great help with the food!

THE FAMILY




THE PRESENTS





Uncle Daniel built this Lego table for Ben

...he LOVES it!!!!!!!!!!!!
Happy about Christmas coming!

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Silly Nathan

I love this SILLY SILLY boy!

By Ben

This is Ben's picture he made and brought to me the other day. He said "it's Mary, baby Jesus and the 3 shepards". Not sure where Joseph is- maybe off updating his Facebook status about the birth of his son :)

I love little the pictures that Ben makes- they are always evolving and always creative!

Fun Day Out

When it's cold and rainy outside but your kids need to get out of the house, what else is better than a trip to the pet store. It was free and it kept them happy and entertained for close to an hour. Ben talked sweet to all the animals and Nathan kept giggling thinking the animals were hiding from him. Good times!
Nathan saw the birds and said "tweet tweet birdy" and as if on cue, one tweeted back. This had Nathan cracking up!
I love this little curious smile- he loved the Guinea pigs!

Clean & Shiny

"Ben's here, I'm ready for you to clean my teeth" is how Ben entered the dentist's office this week. He had us all cracking up the whole time. He was the ideal patient and his teeth are top notch. Good work Ben!


Sunday, December 16, 2012

A Scootin Good Time

Nathan is currently 22 months old and is in love with riding his scooter. He asks to ride it every chance he gets and sometimes he just gets his helmet, brings it to you and says "scooter mommy". He cracks me up and just I love to watch him scoot along. GO NATHAN!

Santa Party with Friends

Saturday night our friends invited us to a Santa Party. It was so neat and we are so thankful that we were invited. They served dinner, hot drinks,  there was live music, and Santa visited and gave a little gift to each child. It was a wonderful night with friends and lots of Christmas fun! 




Nathan and Sofia LOVED listening to the music and dancing non-stop

Oxnard High School live band- the kids loved it and Nathan kept saying "neat music"
Santa arriving

watching for Santa
watching Santa fly by


Santa gave each little child a teddy bear


Ben asking Santa "are you real or just pretend" . . . gotta love  4 year old innocence